1/2/2024 0 Comments The cure alone with youI get no benefits apart from a minimal amount of housing benefit as even though I am part time I`m still considered to be earning too much money each month to be elligible!! I see my 3 young children every saturday which gives me plenty to look forward to each week. Making ends meet is a struggle each month what with having to pay rent, household bills, debts etc, my landlady has been very helpful in reducing my monthly rent until I get sorted out financially. I enjoy my work and hopefully I will go through some training so I can become full time.fingers crossed. I am currently awaiting the DVLA ( Driver Licensing Authority in UK ) decision on whether I am still allowed to drive. I work as a part time driver working with adults with learning disabilities. "I love and accept all parts of me as I am." "I love and accept all parts of me as I am." "I love and accept all parts of me as I am.I`m divorced ( I was married for 12 years ) and I now live on my own in a first floor flat (apartment), I was on my own when I was diagnosed in Oct 2011, at moment I only have a tremor in my right hand but both Nuerosurgeon and Nurse says it could remain that way for 10 years or so. I am fresh out of a relationship as well (barely a day ago), but coping with it has been SO much easier with complete and 100% percent acceptance of myself. This relaxed state opens up your mind, and ingrains it into your subconscious. To make this 10x more effective, say it to yourself when you're almost falling asleep. You will begin to notice the pain of loss, fear, and anxiety slowly melt away. Say this mantra, and if you don't feel immediate results, then do it again, and again, and again. Now, instead of saying you don't like these things, take a deep breath, look at the inner child deep within you and say "I love and accept ALL parts of me as I am." Write it down, type it out, talk it out with a friend, doesn't matter. So how do you do this? You do it by looking at everything you think is wrong with you. Self acceptance releases you from the shackles of things like fear of loss, anxiety, depression, and other negative emotions, or, at the very least, lessens the blow significantly. You've heard it before, but I'll dig a little deeper into it: The CURE is to love yourself unconditionally. And is the reason we cannot cope in picking up the pieces of our shattered hearts. This is the reason we grovel and mope for months, even years. THIS is why being alone is so damn difficult. "If I'm alone, who do I get my sense of validation from?" If we end up alone, and haven't built a strong foundation of the Self, fear takes over, and we ask ourselves the million dollar question: If our parents were emotionally tortured as children, they will not have the ability to nurture us into becoming emotionally self sufficient. If our parents were just as codependent as we are due to being neglected, abused, or treated harshly by THEIR OWN parents, they lacked the proper tools to raise a healthy, self sustaining child.Ĭodependency develops when we are denied the opportunity to grow a sense of Self INDEPENDENTLY from our parents. To make matters short: as children, we perceive our mother and father (or any guardians) from an unconscious perspective. If you're on this thread, there's a pretty good chance you are (to some degree) emotionally co-dependent.
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